episodes

Episode 131: Forgiveness and Spiritual Renewal w/ Fr. John Horn
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 131: Forgiveness and Spiritual Renewal w/ Fr. John Horn

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Fr. John Horn, co-founder of the Institute for Priestly Formation (IPF). Fr. Horn shares details behind how IPF was founded, the significance of St. Ignatius' spiritual exercises in priestly formation, and the beauty of how formation has evolved within the Church. They also discuss the Sacrament of Reconciliation, the importance of addressing the roots of sin, and the heart-level transformation that occurs when we bring our fears to the Lord. 

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Episode 130: Healing from Abuse within the Church w/ Teresa Pitt Green
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 130: Healing from Abuse within the Church w/ Teresa Pitt Green

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Teresa Pitt Green, co-founder of Spirit Fire, a ministry dedicated to “facilitating healing dialogue among those wounded by abuse in the Roman Catholic Church.” Teresa shares her own story of healing from abuse, the challenges she experienced, and what she learned along the way. She also shares practical advice to help priests approach conversations with survivors, common mistakes to avoid, and insights into the complexity of what it’s like to heal from abuse. Ultimately, it is Jesus who heals, and He can use whatever we have to offer to bring about restoration in the Church and her members. 


If you are experiencing or have experienced abuse of any kind, we encourage you to reach out to Teresa or check out her resources on Spirit Fire’s website.

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Episode 129: Restoring the Hearts of Priests w/ Matt Rudolph
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 129: Restoring the Hearts of Priests w/ Matt Rudolph

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Matt Rudolph, co-founder of Chrism which is a ministry for priests. Matt dives into the challenges faced by priests today including a need for community,  support in embracing imperfections, and formation that emphasizes personal healing. They also share their visions for a more integrated approach to the priesthood that fosters true spiritual fatherhood. Matt ends the episode by sharing how Chrism supports priests in becoming happy, healthy, and holy in their vocations.

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Episode 128: Healing Within a Parish Community
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 128: Healing Within a Parish Community

This week, Jake and Bob share ideas on how to foster a healthy parish community. They not only reflect on the challenges of developing true community within a parish but also ponder how healthy parish life revolves around our personal healing and freedom. Through the use of multiple personal examples, Jake and Bob also explore the importance of the Sacraments, the role of forgiveness, and how love and fear bonds affect our relationships with God and those around us.

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Episode 127: Intergenerational Healing
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 127: Intergenerational Healing

This week, Jake and Bob discuss intergenerational healing, taking into account recent pastoral advice from Bishops around the world. Intergenerational healing involves understanding how wounds and sins from previous generations can affect individuals in the present. Jake and Bob not only reflect on the Bishops’ letters, which express concern regarding the practice of intergenerational healing, but also share personal experiences of miraculous healings that occurred after addressing generational issues in prayer.

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Episode 126: Psychiatry & Personality w/ Dr. Christin McIntyre
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 126: Psychiatry & Personality w/ Dr. Christin McIntyre

This week, Jake and Bob welcome back Dr. Christin McIntyre, a Thomistic psychiatrist, to discuss the concept of personality disorders. They begin by defining what a personality disorder is and explore how modern culture and social norms can influence and twist this definition. Then, they discuss the interplay between inherited traits, early life experiences, and individual choices in shaping one’s personality. Through the analogy of a sailboat, Dr. Christin also shares how the intellect, will, and emotions are all interconnected and why navigating the waters of healing not only involves the formation of the intellect but also the conforming of our will to God’s.

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Episode 125: Forgiveness & Transformation
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 125: Forgiveness & Transformation

This week, Jake and Bob return to an important topic: the healing power of forgiveness. Both Jake and Bob have encountered forgiveness and mercy in their healing journeys and share personal stories about receiving forgiveness and forgiving others. They also discuss why forgiving and forgetting is not possible, how to know if you’ve truly forgiven someone, and how our memories are transformed through the process of forgiveness.

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Episode 124: How Change Occurs (Part 2)
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 124: How Change Occurs (Part 2)

This week, Jake and Bob continue their conversation and focus on the primary mechanisms of our human nature when it comes to change. We are a composite of body, soul, and spirit, but many times we isolate change and healing to only one part of our nature. While this can lead to some change, when integrated on a physical, emotional, and spiritual level we can experience greater progress. Jake and Bob discuss incremental vs transformational change, how the Sacraments pour out grace into our lives, and share stories of experiencing change in their lives.

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Episode 123: How Change Occurs (Part 1)
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 123: How Change Occurs (Part 1)

This week, Jake and Bob explore the complex process of personal change, what change requires, and why change can seem out of reach. In today’s culture of near instant gratification, it’s easy to think change should and will come about quickly and without much effort. While God can and does work many miracles, the reality is, change takes time, effort, and a lot of grace. Jake and Bob have experienced this in their lives, understand the struggle, and share their GIVE framework as a guide to help you navigate the beautiful and yet painful waters of change. 

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Episode 122: Faith that Heals w/ Fr. Mathias Thelen
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 122: Faith that Heals w/ Fr. Mathias Thelen

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Fr. Mathias Thelen, Co-Founder and President of Encounter Ministries and Pastor of St. Patrick Catholic Parish in Brighton. Fr. Mathias shares his story of experiencing the transformative power of the Holy Spirit, encountering an advisor who fathered him in Seminary, and experiences of grace that shaped his ministry. Throughout his journey of faith, Fr. Mathias shares stories of physical and emotional healing, explains what charisms are, and why a relationship with God is the most important part of each of our lives. 

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Episode 121: Integrating Faith and Psychiatry w/ Dr. Christin McIntyre
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 121: Integrating Faith and Psychiatry w/ Dr. Christin McIntyre

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by psychiatrist Dr. Christin McIntyre to discuss spiritual warfare and mental health. They discuss the teachings of St. Thomas Aquinas on human psychology and why learning about how our minds were created to work helps us spiritually and emotionally. Dr. Christin also discusses the importance of hope in prayer, what constrains our ability to love, and the role of repentance in mental health.

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Episode 120: The Body and Trust: Redefining Healthcare w/ Dr. Chuck Leitz
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 120: The Body and Trust: Redefining Healthcare w/ Dr. Chuck Leitz

Happy New Year! This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Dr. Chuck Leitz who has been seeing patients for over 40 years. They discuss Dr. Chuck’s journey towards integrative medicine and what he has learned along the way. Dr. Chuck reflects on the importance of introducing prayer into medical practice, the role of trust issues in healing, and the necessity of a holistic approach to health that considers both the body and soul.

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Episode 119: The Four Reasons for Christmas
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 119: The Four Reasons for Christmas

Merry Christmas! This week, Jake and Bob have a heartfelt conversation about loss and healing during the Christmas season. Bob shares about recently losing a family member and reflects on the healing power of being present with one another during times of grief. They also explore the significance of Jesus’ birth, the complexities of self-reflection in the context of healing, and transforming traditions into opportunities for deeper connection and presence.

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Episode 118: Physical and Emotional Healing w/ Dr. Tom Nelson
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 118: Physical and Emotional Healing w/ Dr. Tom Nelson

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by their longtime friend and Dr. Tom Nelson, a sports activation specialist. They discuss Dr. Tom’s journey of integrating faith into his medical practice and the physical and spiritual healing that has occurred as a result. Dr. Tom shares about the relationship between emotional and physical healing, a new perspective on the anatomy of a wound, and several inspirational patient stories.

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Episode 117: Question and Response
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 117: Question and Response

This week, Jake and Bob answer your questions! They discuss topics ranging from the effectiveness of 12-step groups and obedience in religious life to explaining love to someone who has never experienced it and more. We enjoy receiving your emails and encourage you to send us a message or a question for a future show on our website here.

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Episode 116: Redemptive Suffering (Part 2)
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 116: Redemptive Suffering (Part 2)

This week, Jake and Bob continue their conversation on redemptive suffering. They reflect on the Song of the Suffering Servant from Isaiah 53 and how Jesus redeems suffering itself. Jake and Bob also discuss how Jesus experienced all seven deadly wounds, challenged each identity lie, and how this in turn helps us challenge our own identity lies so that we too can love through sorrow.

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Episode 115: Redemptive Suffering (Part 1)
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 115: Redemptive Suffering (Part 1)

This week, Jake and Bob dive deep into the concept of redemptive suffering. Whether you are grieving the loss of a loved one, processing a medical diagnosis, or struggling to love your neighbor, we all experience suffering in many forms throughout our lives. Jake and Bob discuss how these sufferings allow us to see clearly into our hearts and notice the compassionate ways God is working to unite us more closely to Him. They also explore the nature of suffering as an experience of evil, the healing power of suffering, and share personal stories of how suffering redeemed their lives.

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Episode 114: Healing & Trust w/ Carrie Archual
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 114: Healing & Trust w/ Carrie Archual

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Carrie Archual, a longtime friend and prayerful intercessor in their families’ lives. Carrie walks us through her profound journey of a cancer diagnosis.  From learning surrender to experiencing deep spiritual consolations, Carrie shares the transformative power of faith in the face of suffering. They also discuss the duality of pain and healing and how true healing isn’t always physical restoration alone.

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Episode 113: Rooted In Love w/ Isaac Wicker
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 113: Rooted In Love w/ Isaac Wicker

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Isaac Wicker, a licensed counselor and co-founder of Known, a 12-week online Catholic coaching program to heal wounded relationships with God the Father. Isaac shares his story of his own mental health journey, his approach to helping others overcome their struggles and discover their worth, as well as the role of loving people in therapy. They also discuss the importance of bringing all our emotions and desires to God, especially when we are exploring our own woundedness.

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Episode 112: Anatomy of Freedom with Fr. Mark-Mary Ames, CFR
Kristina Stark Kristina Stark

Episode 112: Anatomy of Freedom with Fr. Mark-Mary Ames, CFR

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Fr. Mark-Mary Ames, CFR to discuss the anatomy of freedom. Fr. Mark-Mary talks about the three pillars of freedom, the components of being loved, and how these concepts have helped bring about healing within his ministry work. They also discuss the importance of naming our needs, surrendering them to God, and why this act of surrender helps us love and be loved more authentically.

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